As She's Told
by Anneke Jacob
Pink Flamingo Publications, 2008
(No ISBN on my copy)
I've often observed, both in my stories
and in real life, that the most erotic moments derive from
complementary fantasies. Exhibitionist and voyeur. Sheik and harem
girl. Strict schoolmarm and naughty schoolboy. And of course, Dom and
sub. You want to do something. Your partner wants to
see/feel/taste/touch you as you do it. Each participant is aware of
the other's desires. That awareness sets up an erotic circuit, each
person's excitement amplifying the other's arousal.
Anneke Jacob's remarkable novel As
She's Told presents an extreme case of this sort of reciprocity.
Her heroine, Maia, craves complete submission. She wants to be
owned—the life of a slave with no choice at all. She has harbored
these desires since childhood, struggling to make her way in the
world, pretending to be a "normal" person, but knowing that
only this total relinquishment of her will can make her feel whole
and safe.
Anders is Maia's complement, a dominant
who finds the games and play parties of the BDSM scene silly and
frustrating. He wants complete control over a woman—the freedom to
do anything at all to his slave, to require any service, to
experiment with any sort of pain or bondage that appeals to him. He
wants a woman to be his belonging, his chattel,"his own thing".
When the story opens, though, he has almost given up hope of ever
satisfying his deep-seated desire for total control.
Anders first encounters Maia in a BDSM
chat room, where she asks, in response to a discussion about
negotiation: "but doesn't that spoil it?" and later adds:
"I mean if a sub chooses that means control. contradiction in
terms." Anders hardly dares to believe that he might have
finally found his counterpart, but when they meet in person at a
"munch", mutual understanding and mutual attraction are
both immediate.
The early chapters,
when Maia and Anders first realize that their dreams may have come
true, left me breathless. Despite their lightning attraction, Anders
forces them to go slowly. Step by step, he leads Maia into a new
world of unquestioning obedience. All does not go smoothly. Although
she is desperate to please, Maia is also sloppy, irresponsible and
occasionally rebellious. In addition, she is unrelentingly horny, and
Anders rarely allows her any release for her sexual tension.
In each chapter,
Anders introduces new torments or requires new adjustments. A waist
chain is replaced by a tight corset, then labial piercings, then a
chastity belt, then a bit and bridle and leather mitts that turn Maia
into a dumb animal. In the early stages, he regularly checks with his
would-be slave to make sure that she has not changed her mind. By the
time they have been together for a year, however, she is truly his,
and he stops asking her to describe her feelings or give him
feedback.
Anders is a
perfectionist, a construction contractor with a passion for detail.
As She's Told is almost obsessive in its descriptions of the
equipment he designs to decorate, test and torture his slave. The
book includes all the familiar trappings from the BDSM canon: the
slave suspended and whipped; the slave plugged with dildos and
vibrators but not allowed to come; the slave used as furniture; the
slave eating out of a dog bowl; the slave harnessed to a cart and
forced to trot and gallop. (Ms. Jacobs also dreams up some more
unusual and imaginative kinks, but I won't spoil the impact by
describing them here.)
We've seen all
these notions before, in Carrie's Story, in the Beauty Trilogy, in
The Story of O. The difference is that in As She's Told, these are
not treated as fantasy. Ms. Jacob is convincingly realistic in her
depictions of what Anders does and how Maia feels. At some level,
this book is still a fantasy, a thought experiment exploring how an
extreme Master/slave relationship might develop, but the tone demands
that the reader take the whole process seriously.
In fact, parts of
this book are sufficiently extreme that they may be difficult for
some readers. I found that I could not read more than a few chapters
at a sitting because, despite my long-time fascination with BDSM,
they made me uncomfortable.
This is not
(despite some horrified reviews on Amazon.com) a story of abuse.
Anders does not negotiate, but he cares for his slave and makes sure
that she will not be seriously injured. When he offers his brother,
cousin and several women friends free use of Maia's body, he makes
sure that they use condoms, even for oral sex. He is giving Maia what
she wants, and she is suitably grateful. Still, I wouldn't want
Anders for my Master. He's too interested in stripping away Maia's
pretensions of being human. He delights in turning her into an animal
or even an inanimate object. Toward the end of the novel, Maia spends
eight weeks without the use of her hands, sleeping in a stall,
forbidden to speak, and worst of all, banished from her Master's bed.
I can scarcely imagine this—it sounds too horrible to be endured
(far worse than being forbidden to or unable to come). But then, I'm
not Maia. Ms. Jacobs managed to make me believe that Maia could and
would endure it, in order to please Anders.
As She's Told is
not without its faults. It is a long book without much plot. Each
chapter pushes new limits, but there's no climax and very little
conflict. I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop, for Maia to
rebel or for someone to be hurt or killed, for some revelation or
resolution, but in fact nothing much happens. We're led to believe
that this relationship will continue, satisfying both of the
participants, as they live out their complementary fantasies
together. I think that this is Ms. Jacob's point, to suggest that
such a relationship could actually exist and that it could be healthy
and mutually fulfilling.
I don't know
whether I am completely convinced. People change. Maia is very young
(she graduates from college in the course of the book) and Anders not
much older. Furthermore, it seems that there must be an objective
limit to the escalation Anders practices on Maia. My Master and I
have debated the question of escalation, the continued pushing of
limits. Clearly there must be some point when you can't push any
further without doing serious physical harm. What happens then? Do
the participants get bored or jaded? Or is it the case that a truly
imaginative dominant will never run out of things to do with his
slave?
The very fact that
I'm thinking about these issues, though, is a tribute to Ms. Jacob's
skill. As She's Told is a rare item, a serious novel about BDSM
relationships that does not sacrifice realism for titillation. I
found it exciting, disturbing and challenging. I just bought a copy
for my Master.
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